The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide for Finding Intimacy, Passion and Peace with a ManSimon and Schuster, 28/02/2001 - 288 páginas A New York Times bestseller, this controversial guide to improving your marriage has transformed thousands of relationships, bringing women romance, harmony, and the intimacy they crave. Like millions of women, Laura Doyle wanted her marriage to be better. But when she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, helpful, and ambitious, he withdrew—and she was lonely and exhausted from controlling everything. Desperate to be in love with her man again, she decided to stop telling him what to do and how to do it. When Doyle surrendered control, something magical happened. The union she had always dreamed of appeared. The man who had wooed her was back. The underlying principle of The Surrendered Wife is simple: The control women wield at work and with children must be left at the front door of any marriage. Laura Doyle’s model for matrimony shows women how they can both express their needs and have them met while also respecting their husband’s choices. When they do, they revitalize intimacy. Compassionate and practical, The Surrendered Wife is a step-by-step guide that teaches women how to: · Give up unnecessary control and responsibility · Resist the temptation to criticize, belittle, or dismiss their husbands · Trust their husbands in every aspect of marriage—from sexual to financial · And more. The Surrendered Wife will show you how to transform a lonely marriage into a passionate union. |
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... Avoid Setting Up a Negative Expectation 133 11. Stop Reading His Mind 140 12. Don't Crowd the Setter 148 13. Abandon the Myth of Equality 153 14. Set Limits by Saying " I Can't❞ 162 15. Strive to Be Vulnerable 172 16. Admit It When 11 ...
... Avoid Setting Up a Negative Expectation 133 11. Stop Reading His Mind 140 12. Don't Crowd the Setter 148 13. Abandon the Myth of Equality 153 14. Set Limits by Saying " I Can't❞ 162 15. Strive to Be Vulnerable 172 16. Admit It When 11 ...
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... avoiding me . I prayed for wisdom , and took more baby steps towards approaching the relationship without control . Slowly but surely , things started to change . As I stopped bossing him around , giving him advice , burying him in ...
... avoiding me . I prayed for wisdom , and took more baby steps towards approaching the relationship without control . Slowly but surely , things started to change . As I stopped bossing him around , giving him advice , burying him in ...
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... avoid traffic . When I tried to convince my brother that he really should get some therapy , I justified butting into his life as wanting " to be there for him . " All of these justifications were merely elaborate covers for my ...
... avoid traffic . When I tried to convince my brother that he really should get some therapy , I justified butting into his life as wanting " to be there for him . " All of these justifications were merely elaborate covers for my ...
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... avoid a conflict . One way to bite your tongue when you feel he's being immature or stubborn is to remind yourself that you are taking the high road . Sure , it would be easy to jab him , but instead find the grace to be generous . You ...
... avoid a conflict . One way to bite your tongue when you feel he's being immature or stubborn is to remind yourself that you are taking the high road . Sure , it would be easy to jab him , but instead find the grace to be generous . You ...
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Página 137 - You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments that stand out, the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.
Página 241 - silence." Mother Teresa described the silence and its relationship to God by saying, "God is the friend of Silence. See how nature (trees, grass) grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun — how they move in silence. We need silence to be able to touch souls.
Página 92 - The stoical scheme of supplying our wants by lopping off our desires is like cutting off our feet when we want shoes.
Página 186 - When we were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability.
Página 216 - Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain.
Página 66 - Wisdom is divided into two parts: (a) having a great deal to say, and (b) not saying it.
Página 241 - We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence.
Página 243 - ... and balance. God is able to enlighten the understanding. I .am often bewildered, because my mind is only finite. I question and doubt my own judgments. Then I seek guidance, and when I am sure, I go ahead, leaving the results with Him. Our finite minds beside His infinite mind seem to me like this: I go walking, and the hills loom above me, range upon range, one against the other. I cannot tell where one begins, and another leaves off. But from the air (I seldom have time to travel any other...
Página 169 - I cannot say whether things will get better if we change; what I can say is they must change if they are to get better.
Página 270 - . . . there's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.