Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating BehaviorPenguin, 01/02/1996 - 208 páginas Practical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more. |
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Página xiii
... keeping their feelings to themselves. Staying angry and living with the pain seems to be a better choice than having another argument. The problem is, if you do not deal with hurt and disappointment quickly enough those feelings harden ...
... keeping their feelings to themselves. Staying angry and living with the pain seems to be a better choice than having another argument. The problem is, if you do not deal with hurt and disappointment quickly enough those feelings harden ...
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... keeping cumbersome paper files. They're actually afraid they won't be able to work the computer. 9. Self-involvement is ... keep a friend or lover. You can begin to repair such rifts only through empathy. Get in the habit of putting ...
... keeping cumbersome paper files. They're actually afraid they won't be able to work the computer. 9. Self-involvement is ... keep a friend or lover. You can begin to repair such rifts only through empathy. Get in the habit of putting ...
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... keeping ourselves from gaining the love, success and happiness we want in our lives. That's what self-defeating behavior does. It works against our own best interests. It defies our deepest desires. It creates more problems than it ...
... keeping ourselves from gaining the love, success and happiness we want in our lives. That's what self-defeating behavior does. It works against our own best interests. It defies our deepest desires. It creates more problems than it ...
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... keep us from getting hurt. The action itself seems logical and expedient at the time, and it might actually succeed in bringing about short-term relief. But that behavior invariably comes back to haunt us. Then we curse ourselves for ...
... keep us from getting hurt. The action itself seems logical and expedient at the time, and it might actually succeed in bringing about short-term relief. But that behavior invariably comes back to haunt us. Then we curse ourselves for ...
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... keep the book handy as a reference source. There are two reasons for this. First, as new situations arise, you might, like most people, find new ways to defeat yourself. Different chapters will suddenly take on new meaning and new ...
... keep the book handy as a reference source. There are two reasons for this. First, as new situations arise, you might, like most people, find new ways to defeat yourself. Different chapters will suddenly take on new meaning and new ...
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Secção 3_ | 99 |
Secção 4_ | 138 |
Secção 5_ | 173 |
Secção 6_ | 177 |
Secção 7_ | 179 |
Secção 8_ | 181 |
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Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização limitada - 1996 |
Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização limitada - 1996 |
Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização indisponível - 1996 |
Palavras e frases frequentes
able accept adult afraid Alcoholics Anonymous ALEXANDER POPE anger angry avoid become child core of hate create defeating deprived didn’t effort emotional empathy envy eventually example expect express fear feel safe feel sorry felt forgive FRANCIS BACON frustration getting give happen hope husband important impulse keep kids know-it-all less lives look lose Mark Goulston marriage Menninger Foundation mind mistake mother needy never okay OSCAR WILDE ourselves overcome pain parents partner patients Paul Penguin Group Penguin Group USA PERIGEE person play problem procrastinate promise promise-breakers psychosomatic illness RALPH WALDO EMERSON realize reason rebel relationship resentment self-defeating behavior sense situation someone spouse stop sure TAKING ACTION talking tell therapist therapy they’re things thought told trauma trust turn understand upset USABLE INSIGHT usually wait what’s wife won’t wrong you’ll you’ve