Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating BehaviorPractical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more. |
No interior do livro
Resultados 1-5 de 28
Página xiii
Staying angry and living with the pain seems to be a better choice than having another argument. The problem is, if you do not deal with hurt and disappointment quickly enough those feelings harden into resentment, anger, and hate.
Staying angry and living with the pain seems to be a better choice than having another argument. The problem is, if you do not deal with hurt and disappointment quickly enough those feelings harden into resentment, anger, and hate.
Página xiv
You are better off concentrating on overcoming your own selfdefeating behaviors and changing yourself for the better. As for the other person, they're much more likely to come around if you use understanding and acceptance rather than ...
You are better off concentrating on overcoming your own selfdefeating behaviors and changing yourself for the better. As for the other person, they're much more likely to come around if you use understanding and acceptance rather than ...
Página xv
Few things make you feel worse than giving in to selfdefeating behavior, but few things make you feel better than overcoming it. Like eating sweets or having an affair, the high you feel after indulging in self-defeating behavior is ...
Few things make you feel worse than giving in to selfdefeating behavior, but few things make you feel better than overcoming it. Like eating sweets or having an affair, the high you feel after indulging in self-defeating behavior is ...
Página xviii
I should have known better! I'm my own worst enemy!” How many times have you said those words to yourself? Chances are, your answer is “Too often!” How many times have you identified exactly how you're defeating yourself and vowed never ...
I should have known better! I'm my own worst enemy!” How many times have you said those words to yourself? Chances are, your answer is “Too often!” How many times have you identified exactly how you're defeating yourself and vowed never ...
Página xx
Selfdefeating behavior invariably begins as an attempt to make ourselves feel better. It is a coping mechanism. When faced with a crisis, a threat or a potentially upsetting situation, we try to protect ourselves.
Selfdefeating behavior invariably begins as an attempt to make ourselves feel better. It is a coping mechanism. When faced with a crisis, a threat or a potentially upsetting situation, we try to protect ourselves.
Opinião das pessoas - Escrever uma crítica
As críticas não são validadas, mas a Google verifica a existência de conteúdo falso e remove-o quando é identificado
Superb!
Procura do Utilizador - minnesotahguy26 - Overstock.comThis book is a no nonsense practical approach to various ways to avoid self sabatoging in relationships and with your habitual behaviors. Very short sweet and concise. Everyone should have this book ... Ler crítica na íntegra
Review: Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior
Procura do Utilizador - Joy - GoodreadsReally thin self help content that neglects to provide insight into suggestions. Ler crítica na íntegra
Índice
| 1 | |
Procrastinating | 11 |
Waiting Until Its Too Late | 21 |
Saying Yes When You Want to Say No | 29 |
Assuming They Dont Want Anything | 37 |
Playing It Safe | 41 |
Always Having to Be Right | 45 |
Focusing on What Your Partner Is Doing Wrong | 49 |
Trying to Take Care of Everybody | 100 |
Refusing to Play Games | 104 |
Putting on an Act to Make a Good Impression | 108 |
Being Envious of Others | 113 |
Feeling Sorry for Yourself | 117 |
Assuming the Hard Way Is the Right Way | 122 |
Thinking Im Sorry Is Enough | 126 |
Holding It All In | 130 |
Putting up With Broken Promises | 54 |
Trying to Make up While Youre Still Angry | 59 |
Not Learning From Your Mistakes | 63 |
Trying to Change Others | 67 |
Rebelling Just for the sake of Rebelling | 71 |
Talking When Nobodys Listening | 75 |
Pretending Youre Fine When Youre Not | 79 |
Becoming Obsessive or Compulsive | 83 |
Taking Things Too Personally | 88 |
Acting Too Needy | 92 |
Having Unrealistic Expectations | 96 |
Quitting Too Soon | 135 |
Letting Others Control Your Life | 139 |
Leaving Too Much to Chance | 143 |
Letting Fear Run Your Life | 148 |
Not Moving on After a Loss | 152 |
Not Getting Out When the Getting Is Good | 156 |
Not Asking for What You Need | 161 |
Giving Advice When They Want Something Else | 166 |
Backing Down Because You Dont Feel Ready | 171 |
Outras edições - Ver tudo
Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização limitada - 1996 |
Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização limitada - 1996 |
Palavras e frases frequentes
able accept adult afraid anger avoid become begin better build chance child comes compulsive course create defeating don't easy effective effort emotional example expect experience express face fact fail fall fear feel felt follow frustration getting give hand happen hard hate hold hope hurt husband important it's keep less lives look lose loss mean memories mind mother nature never obsession offer once ourselves pain parents patients Paul person play problem promise quit realize reason relationship remember resent respect response safe self-defeating behavior sense situation someone Sometimes sorry stand steps stop success sure TAKING ACTION talking tell things thought tion told trust turn understand upset USABLE INSIGHT usually wait wife wish wrong you're
Informação bibliográfica
| Título | Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior |
| Autores | Mark Goulston, Philip Goldberg |
| Editora | Penguin, 1996 |
| ISBN | 1101657758, 9781101657751 |
| Número de páginas | 208 páginas |
| Exportar citação | BiBTeX EndNote RefMan |